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    So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Mon Jan 05, 2015 6:12 pm

    but any steps i could take would be futile.

    What do you guys think of that?
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ace on Thu Jan 08, 2015 8:11 pm

    Wat. Why?


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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Fri Jan 09, 2015 9:31 am

    Well it seems like I've always known, but it wasn't until i was past puberty that i was really thinking about it.

    The actual why is hard to explain, I never really felt like a normal guy, they were into cars and looking at porn stars, and i didn't care about either...

    As for girls... they always seemed so much more free, I used to envy it.

    Well I think that's enough about why for now.
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ace on Fri Jan 09, 2015 6:04 pm

    I don't mean to intrude on personal things, sorry. And I know plenty of guys including myself that aren't into cars and porn stars. Razz

    I won't try to fight your decision or argue about it, I just want to elicit some thought. If I recall correctly from a psychology class I took years ago, women are more carefree partly because the average woman is driven more by emotion, whereas the male brain is more analytical, which can lead to a higher degree of caution (though women can have much higher emotional stress, of course). Point being, your pursuit seems to involve adjusting the brain-- which I presume is one of the reasons why you stated steps towards this would be futile, because I don't know if something like that is possible with current technology and knowledge.

    If there is a way, though, and you're sure you want to go through with it, then by all means, you have my support.


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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Sat Jan 10, 2015 4:07 am

    but the problem is that there isn't a way to physically change. i'm a tall guy with broad shoulders, there's no option that would even make me look like a girl.

    And i think it's worse looking like a girl who used to be a guy than being a guy. you'd get shunned, rejected, outcast.

    so I'm just stuck, living a life that I wont be happy with.
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ace on Sat Jan 10, 2015 8:07 am

    It's true, you will be shunned and rejected by some people and accepted by others. But that's the same way in all aspects of life. Some Republicans fiercely shun and reject Democrats and vice versa. Some Caucasians shun and reject African Americans, and vice versa. Tons of people are strongly influenced by incorrect stereotypes that lead to shunning and rejection (such as Texans are inbred gung-ho morons). And there is, of course, religion (need I say more).

    The only good way to fight that discrimination is to hold your high, keep your pride, and show others there's nothing to be ashamed about.


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    I'm going to get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!

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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ahmed on Wed Feb 11, 2015 1:51 am

    Can't tell if trolling lol.


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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Thu Feb 12, 2015 4:39 am

    That would be a rather difficult troll to pull off. Most people get a strong sense of identity from their gender, not me!
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Doc on Wed Feb 18, 2015 11:52 pm

    Don't even know what to say in response to this ...
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Wed Feb 25, 2015 11:04 pm

    i was just trying to get ahmed to see i wasn't trolling
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Fri Jun 03, 2016 12:57 pm

    just a quick update, i'm doing it.
    I've spoke to my doctor, he referred me to a psychiatrist, who i'm waiting to hear from, and when he's assessed me i should start hormone replacement therapy.
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ahmed on Wed Dec 07, 2016 12:14 am

    Come back Steve. Or Steva?


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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Steve on Wed Dec 07, 2016 4:56 am

    hey, whats up?
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ahmed on Wed Dec 07, 2016 3:18 pm

    Hey Steve, you got the email Very Happy

    Yeah we just decided yesterday to try and make NH great again lol


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    Post by Steve on Wed Dec 07, 2016 7:54 pm

    sounds good, i can only come on by phone atm, but i'll try to check back
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    Re: So i realised I'd rather be a woman...

    Post by Ahmed on Thu Dec 08, 2016 1:52 am

    Im surprised it works on your phone. It gives Craig issues on phone


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